When it comes to making a woman orgasm, her mind state is one of the most important factors. If her head is not in it, good luck getting her off… if you can get in her mind, and fully arouse her mentally, orgasm would be much quicker… that’s why it’s so important to talk dirty to her during sex.
This shows how powerful of a sexual organ the brain is for women.
Us men? Not as complicated… while the mind without a doubt plays a huge role in our arousal as well, seeing some tits and ass is enough for us in most cases.
So how do we take advantage of this? Talk dirty… find her “love language”… her real love language.
How does she like to spoken to? Softly and with love? Or like a dirty little tramp?
What are her fantasies? Play into that… what kind of arousal does she like? Speak about that…
I’ve seen and heard of more than a few women who have enjoyed being “spoken through their orgasm”…
Take this information and run with it… (or softly whisper it).
As a man, our job is much more difficult than a woman’s when it comes to sex.
We need to be able to last long enough to make her orgasm, we need to be able to get it up, when under pressure… we need to know how to properly penetrate a woman to get her off… if we can get her off at all.
Honestly, it needs an instruction booklet… one that doesn’t exist.
Too much BS information out there on how to last long enough during sex to make a woman orgasm. “Oh… stop and start”… “Oh… ejaculate before sex”…
How am I supposed to get her to orgasm, if a female’s orgasm takes longer to reach than a man’s, if I keep on stopping right as she gets there?
And what enjoyment will I take during sex if I release one before sex, and I go into battle with an empty pistol? And that will sap my erection strength and libido…
Other advice is to think of something else, or to get her off orally before sex. These are both better solutions, but you don’t want to completely remove yourself from the situation mentally, nor do you want to rely only on oral sex.
Lasting Longer During Sex Mentally and Physically
The mind controls the physical aspect, when it comes to sexual stamina.
I remember one time, an ex-girlfriend of mine had sex with me when I was half asleep (I am not woke… I had no complaints towards this), and because my mind was out of it, she was able to ride me for 30 minutes plus and rode herself off to multiple orgasms.
This was at a time that I suffered from premature ejaculation the worst.
Get your mind in the right place, and the physical will be no problem. You need to have strong mind control. As “airy” as the suggestion is, meditation helps you to build some concentration.
Do not allow your arousal to take over your mind. In that frenzied state, keeping ejaculation control is nearly impossible for too long… stay in control from beginning to end.
Physically supporting the cause is key though, as well. PC training, getting the PC muscles strengthened with kegels, helps you greatly maintain physical control.
For more on how to last longer during sex physically and mentally, see here.
Bringing a Woman to Orgasm During Penetration
Clitoris is key to the female orgasm. Most men don’t even know where the clitoris is located. They think “banging” away at a woman as hard as they can will magically bring a woman to orgasm, as if they have a switch located on the inside of their vagina. While there are some points inside the vagina (like the G-spot), which can bring you different levels of success with different women, the clitoris is what brings a woman to orgasm, even in these cases. This is because the G-spot is part of the clitoral network, or a lower extension of the clitoris.
The challenge is how to stimulate the clitoris during penetration. There are different methods to do this, with the main idea being that you want to stimulate the clit (which is almost external to the vagina, being on the top point), while penetrating. This can be done manually, or with the base of your penis or pelvis.
For more on how to make a woman orgasm during penetration, see here.
Have a good one!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement david@mistermanpower.net
It’s fairly common knowledge about the connection between high blood pressure and low testosterone, but did you know that if your blood pressure is too low, it can also lead to low testosterone?
Not long ago I had a temporary health issue that required a medication that greatly reduces blood pressure… I noticed I felt off… I felt tired, and without as much motivation as normal, but didn’t realize how the low blood pressure affected my testosterone levels until I came off the medication.
I began to feel stronger, more like myself… and I began to wonder, if low blood pressure could have affected my testosterone production. Studies and info were few and far between, but I did find a few articles written by medical doctors, who pointed out a connection.
Some interesting insights from these articles highlighting the low blood pressure, low testosterone connection:
“Low testosterone can cause low blood pressure by affecting the body’s ability to produce nitric oxide, a chemical that helps dilate blood vessels and increase blood flow. Low blood pressure can also cause low testosterone by reducing blood flow to the testicles.”
“Testosterone deficiency can be caused by problems in one of three parts of the body: the testes, the hypothalamus, and the pituitary gland. Any problems in these areas can disrupt the production or release of testosterone.
And, in some cases, there can indeed be an overlap between problems in low blood pressure and testosterone levels.“
If you are prescribed a medication that lowers your blood pressure, monitor your blood pressure levels. If they are consistently far below normal levels (lower range is 90/60), talk to your doctor about possibly adjusting your medication, or reducing the dosage if your situation is under control. If you are able to overcome your health condition and get it under control with natural solutions (weight loss, diet, exercise), check about possibly being able to discontinue your medication…
Remember, check first always with your doctor before doing anything on your own. And if you have a serious health condition that requires the dosage that will lower your blood pressure, survival comes first before anything else! Testosterone is a luxury, real men do what they gotta do!
Having my girl tell me she’s sorry for finishing so quickly… I’m doing something right.
How things have changed… it used to be the other way around…
Apology after apology… “I’m so sorry… damn, I wish I could last longer…”
I used to have the biggest problem making a woman orgasm.
No matter what I did, I just couldn’t last long enough to get a girl off. I would always cum right before a woman had an orgasm… and it happened with several women… so it was me, not them.
This just reinforced the idea in my mind that I was meant to suck in bed, and didn’t have what it takes to make a woman orgasm.
I tried the stop-and-start method (terrible method for lasting longer in bed, because you are constantly stopping… a woman needs NON-stop penetration in order to have an orgasm). I tried numbing condoms, I tried thinking about something else in order to stop premature ejaculation, like baseball or solving math problems… but isn’t sex supposed to be pleasurable?
Even if I was able to last a couple of minutes longer, I still couldn’t get a woman off…
But in time, I learned what my problem was…
It wasn’t so much my sexual stamina… but more so my lack of knowledge on the female anatomy, and how to make my efforts pay off…
I used to think all it took to make a woman orgasm was to “bang her” hard, and for a long time (longer than I was capable of)… but my ignorant self didn’t even know where the clit was, so what good would that do?
Fast forward several years and much research and practice later…
I’ve learned a lot about how to delay my ejaculation, but even more important than that was learning how to penetrate a woman properly during sex to get her to orgasm.
A key part of it is hitting her clitoris with your pelvic bone on the “in-stroke”, and rubbing hard against it on the “out-stroke”… keeping constant pressure on it. (Invaluable advice… not addressed on 99% of “how to make a woman orgasm” articles found online).
You also need to get in a woman’s head, really sexually stimulate her mind, and pay attention to her erogenous zones… work on her orgasm from several angles.
Take scenario a) you you go as long and hard as you can, and you last 7 minutes…
Good chance she didn’t have an orgasm.
Now take scenario b) you go as long and hard as you can, and you last 7 minutes… BUT… you are sucking her nipples, talking dirty and applying pressure to her clit while penetrating…
Yes, you’ll be a bit contorted, and feel like a man on a mission… but there will be a good chance she may have an orgasm, maybe even two… then you can release in whatever way feels great to you…
If you can’t last a good few minutes without ejaculation, then you need to learn some ejaculation control. While you don’t need to be a marathon man who can last an hour, you do need to be able to keep up steady penetration with a strong mind. I have exercises that can train you to do so.
