I received an email today from a young man by the name of James.
James is experiencing mental erectile dysfunction because a girl told him that she had been with bigger men (below the waist).
My take on the situation, along with my advice for overcoming mental ED:
“Good afternoon Mr. David it’s James again. I am currently attracted to a girl who is also attracted to me. She has had sex with other men who have apparently had bigger penises than mine. The psychological aspect of this situation to me is I know how to use my penis yet I feel as if it just won’t be good regarding the simple fact that she had had bigger penises inside of her. It’s really all psychological because I get extremely excited and rock hard around her. I am just paranoid that the erection will go down to my flaccid state out of nowhere due to my psychological stress of not being big enough. How do I cure that?”
-James
My reply:
Hi James,
First and foremost, how do you know that she’s been with a man with a bigger penis?
Of course, it’s a very real possibility that her ex had a bigger dick than yours… but there are also women who like to inflict pain for some reason on the guys they date.
I’ve personally dated a couple of women like that… don’t get why, but many women innately do this… possibly to test how secure you are… They’re playing games most of the time, and usually the relationships don’t end up being great, but hey, everything is a learning experience.
I don’t always believe everything people tell me…
Edgar Allen Poe once said:
“Believe only half of what you see, and nothing that you hear.”
I live by those words…
If you didn’t actually see her ex’s unit, then how can you be sure it was true…
And continue to believe you’re good enough…
She wants to have sex with YOU… your penis, be it 6 inches, 5 inches, whatever, is inside of her… not this supposedly larger ex.
And even if it was true… what good is their bigger penis doing for them now? If it was so great, why aren’t they the ones inside of her, instead of you?
The Cause of Your Mental ED — Getting Down To Brass Tacks
Overcoming this mental “annoyance” of comparing your girlfriend’s ex-lovers purported penis size to yours is not the main problem here…
Men suffer from mental erectile dysfunction, and blame it on all sorts of things… from guilt of cheating, to starting to date after divorce, to porn…
But the bottom line is, the reason you can’t get an erection, and MILLIONS of men on a daily basis can’t get an erection before sex is due to nerves… anxiety…
And well, sex and anxiety can quite often go hand-in-hand.
Some nervousness before sex is okay, and natural. Having excessive anxiety or nervousness in your mind will not allow your arousal to spread throughout your body.
The idea here, besides moving beyond the past, is to know that your penis knows what to do, it doesn’t need to be told so. Once the arousal signal is strong enough, your erection happen..
Give it time… you’ll move past it.
But most of all… make sure you check out her character – that she is mature, and that she has your best interests in mind.
Increasing Your Penis Size For Your Own Confidence Sake
If you can’t shake the feeling, than maybe adding some size to your own penis might make you feel better. There are manual techniques you can do to the penis to increase its length and girth. They worked for me, and for thousands of other men around the world.
You can add an inch+ in length, and some good girth. Only side effect is harder erections.
If interested, see here: How to Make Your Penis Bigger
Be realistic with your expectations, but you can make some pretty serious, measurable gains.
Stop sweating the past… and if she likes to put you in uncomfortable situations for her enjoyment on a regular basis… maybe reconsider that relationship.
Best,
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
www.mistermanpower.net
david@mistermanpower.net
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